I was upset, angry at a media reporter who called me the night before and began with "So, what's the year, been like?" A truly harmless statement, to me now, but, I was on the edge and I think I chewed her up, through the interview.Not sure, she even reported anything on me after that! This summarized, all that we were feeling as the 23rd approached.
Yes,it has been tough for us and I am sure for all the other 8 families.
But we have learnt so much:
*We have learnt that, the world, is also filled with so many good people!
*We have learnt that, age is not a reason for people to express support-All of Akhil's friends are a living testimony!
*We have learnt that, all do not handle grief the same way and we should respect that!
*We have learnt that there are still some institutions that cherish old values-Akhil's school Frank Anthony's readily agreeing to institute an award in his memory and offering on their own, to have a memorial on 23rd!
*We have learnt that, the pleasure of giving is much stronger than taking-our awards to unheard/unseeen firemen yesterday!
*We have learnt that, our other child who is challenged with many issues,can still express in her own way, that she is around for us!
*We have learnt that, if one tries hard and persistently a lot can be achieved- setting up the BC trust,meeting with govt types!
*We have learnt that, tragedies like ours, are catalysts to make new friends and yes, so many!
*We have learnt that, you just need to inspire and the ball starts rolling!
*We have learnt that, we should have few expectations- being selfless is hard, but believe me gives great satisfaction!
One year ago, on this day, as I put Akhil to rest, I didn't realize, this was going to be the journey ahead!
Thank you for being there.God Bless!
Been one helluva year!
